50 Shades of ......

50 shades

Fifty Shades of Grey…..

OK…..we went to go watch this yesterday and I would really like those 2 hours of my life back. What is all the uproar about? It’s a love story with a little bit of bdsm put in. It’s someone that has fallen in love with a girl that doesn’t have a submissive bone in her body…..doesn’t understand submission, isn’t empowered by submission and therefore….isn’t a submissive. He’s not Domming her, because she isn’t submitting to him. Therefore it’s not a power exchange. Therefore, love story with a moment of crops and a moment of rope, and a moment of a belt. *shrug* A little bit of kink that she wasn’t into. And because she wasn’t into it, it made him broken for liking it.

Thank goodness I belong to a community where most people that have thought they might be broken for liking consensual kink have found support and their seat of power. A community where we have embraced our sex positivity. A community where we have seen the importance of consent and can still live out our fantasies.

This movie……ok….maybe I’m jaded after so long in the kink community. I’ve been here 16 years. So, I don’t find this movie titalating at all. Though, in the 80’s, Dangerous Touch is the movie that I found titalating. But, that movie was with a woman that embraced her sexuality and her sense of adventure. She wasn’t a poor, clueless, virgin college girl.

Yep, I would have rather have spent that 2 hours playing minecraft…..or better yet, playing with my Master

The only reason we went, is because we are going to be on a 50 shades panel at OSU tomorrow night. The eve of our 14
th collaring anniversary and we are going to be talking to college kids about the kink community and about power exchange. It’s going to be fun, and is kind of neat that it’s on our anniversary…….but it would have been nice to celebrate.